Late February has a certain heaviness to it.
The sparkle of the holidays is long gone. The days are still short. The house feels smaller. The to-do lists feel longer. Finances might feel tight. Emotions feel closer to the surface.
If you’ve felt stretched thin this week… you’re not broken.
You’re human.
And when we are tired — physically, emotionally, financially — our nervous systems work overtime to protect us.
Today I want to talk about the space between trigger and response.
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There is a quote often attributed to Viktor Frankl:
“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response.” I used to read that and feel frustrated.
Because when you live with trauma, or chronic stress, or are raising children with high needs, that “space” can feel microscopic.
Sometimes it feels like reaction happens before thought.
What I have learned — through healing, through Internal Family Systems work, and through life — is that reactivity is usually a protective part.
It’s not weakness.
It’s not failure.
It’s protection.
Books like The Body Keeps the Score remind us that our bodies remember what our minds try to push down. And in The Tao of Pooh, there is this gentle reminder that force rarely creates harmony.
Regulation does.
When we regulate first, wisdom follows.
When we pause first, clarity comes.
Calm is not weakness.
It is a strength under control.
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Mindful Moment: The 90-Second Reset
When you feel activated today — before responding to a child, a partner, a text, an email — try this:
- Stop moving.
- Drop your shoulders.
- Inhale slowly for 4.
- Exhale slowly for 6.
- Silently name the part that is loud.
(“My hypervigilant part is active.”
“My overwhelmed part is trying to run the show.”)
- Place your hand on your chest and say, quietly:
“Thank you for trying to protect me.”
That’s it.
Longer exhales signal safety to your nervous system.
Naming what’s happening reduces emotional intensity.
Compassion softens internal conflict.
You don’t need to fix everything in that moment.
You just need to widen the space.
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Mental Health
"Never underestimate the difference you make and the lives you touch." - Unknown
This is a reminder that small actions add up — whether it’s sharing knowledge about mental health, creating art with a child, teaching someone a new skill, or just showing up for someone.
“Never underestimate the difference you make and the lives you touch.” That simple reminder guides this week’s newsletter as we highlight meaningful ways to grow, connect, and give back. From free mental health education through Mindspring Health webinars, to the healing power of creativity shared by A Chronic Voice, to sustainable living inspiration and opportunities from Mother Earth News, each resource reflects the quiet impact we can have in our families, communities, and beyond. Small steps matter — and together, they create lasting change.
​https://www.mindspringhealth.org/get-involved/webinars-and-events​
​https://achronicvoice.com/how-art-benefits-children-with-developmental-differences/​
​https://www.motherearthnews.com/giveaways/​
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- How to track spending without feeling judged
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- How to identify our spending triggers
- How to plan meals that save money
- Where to find the best deals
- How to make our pantry work FOR us instead of against us
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Reflection
If you have five quiet minutes, consider:
- Where have I been reacting instead of responding?
- What part of me feels overworked right now?
- What would the regulated version of me choose in this situation?
Keep it simple. No essays required.
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One Small Intention for Today
Before responding to anything emotionally charged — take one full breath.
Just one.
That single breath is how we begin building serenity instead of chaos.
You are allowed to move slower.
You are allowed to pause.
You are allowed to choose calm — even if the people around you are not.
This week, what part of you feels loud?
If you’d like to share, I read every reply.
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Cheers, Until next week
Laurie Your Mentor and Cheerleader
P.S. I am quietly developing a Serenity Accountability Circle focused on nervous system regulation, practical goal setting, and building harmony without shame. If you’d like early details, simply reply “SERENE.”
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